We always experience such things. You have a really nice friend, and you think this friendship can last forever. But one day, you have very very different opinions, and you both will stick to your own opinions. At that moment, you must think she or he doesn’t regard you as a friend. In deed, not many people will regard a person with different opinions as a friend. Therefore people always make friends that have something in common.
However, as the time went on, I realize one fact：I don’t have many friends, and all the friends that used to have very good relationship with me have gone. In fact, it is not all my fault, some of them really can not stand my personality and left me. While some can not bear that I have so different opinions and thought we didn’t have common topics any more. Life teaches me a lot of things. You have to handle them instead of running away.
I remember one thing that really impresses me. It is about replica handbags. One of my friend supported the authentic things very much, and she didn’t understand why I always bought replica handbags. I didn’t tell her that the authentic designer handbags are not some things that I could afford in my whole life. She was rich, so she could afford and she was right to be against my opinion. But you have to understand different people have different opinions. If you really understand me, I won’t blame you and you don’t need to agree but you could support.
Nowadays, I still can just afford the replica handbags, and friends understanding me will respect my opinions. And I have no time to pay attention to those people who don’t understand.
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